Monthly Archives: January 2018

Crushing

Posted on January 28, 2018 by vickmcq

Terrible overwhelming grief this morning and its only 9.20am. I am trying to get to church as some of my dear friends are being prayed out as missionaries today and I want to support them but I’m worried I am unable … Continue reading →

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(Some of) The physical effects of grief

Posted on January 23, 2018 by vickmcq

Last week I came down with a terrible toothache that went up through my eye socket, to the middle of the top of my head and all the way down my right side of my neck. Excruciating.  I have not … Continue reading →

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Little things, not so little… part 2

Posted on January 19, 2018 by vickmcq

Friend came round to help sort out kitchen so new lodger could have space for her food and kitchen bits. This means sorting through the cupboards to put some stuff down the cellar as John had a LOT of utensils … Continue reading →

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The temporary paralysis of grief

Posted on January 17, 2018 by vickmcq

In just over three weeks it will be the first year anniversary of John going to be with The Lord, and I feel like I’ve circled back round to deep almost uncontrollable grief, which I did not see coming at … Continue reading →

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Honest

Posted on January 1, 2018 by vickmcq

I’ll be really honest. Yesterday I was really really low. I was even pleading with the Lord to end my life as soon as he possibly could manage. I’m ready, I’m ready to go to heaven. And I want to … Continue reading →

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